From Reactive to Regulated: The Skill That Changed My Divorce and My Business

When You Stop Being Reactive, You Take Your Power Back In divorce. In business. In who you become. I recently watched a video that put language to something I didn’t learn from a book, a coach, or a strategy session — but from lived experience. The message was simple, almost understated: When you stop being […]

He Told Me He Loved Me

He told me he loved me… and I laid on an ultrasound table as they told me my baby’s heart had stopped beating. I drove myself home. He told me he loved me… and I went to the hospital alone. I signed paperwork alone. I sat in waiting rooms alone. I carried fear in my […]

I Left An Addict: Here’s What No One Understands

Why I couldn’t go back—even after he got clean. It’s the question that follows women like a shadow after divorcing an addict. Why didn’t you know? If it was that bad, why didn’t you leave sooner? Why did you give him so many chances? Why not give him another chance now—he’s clean, isn’t he? Those […]